बदल घडायलाच हवेत. रुढी बदलायलाच हव्यात. पण म्हणून संस्कृती नाहीशी होईल, असं काही करण्याची गरज नाही. आमचा लग्नसंस्थेवर १०८ टक्के विश्वास आहे. लग्न म्हणजे राजकीय पक्षांच्या आघाड्या किंवा युती नाहीत. त्यामागे कोणताही आदर्श नसतो, असतो तो फक्त स्वार्थ. लग्नाचं तसं नाही. लग्न म्हणजे दुसऱ्याला स्वीकारणं. तुझे दोष तुझे माझे, माझं जीवन तुझं माझं, म्हणजे लग्न. कुटुंबव्यवस्थेत आगळेच भावबंध आहेत. भले ते थोडे लादले गेलेले असतील. यात रिस्पॉन्सिबिलिटीजही आहेत.
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खरं आहे, ही कसली नवी नाती बनवतो आहोत आपण? खरचं याची गरज आहे का?
या सगळ्या पार्श्वभूमीवर 'लिव इन रिलेशनशिप'कडे बघायला हवं. कारण यात भरडली जाणार आहे ती बाईच.
प्रेम सगळ्या कायद्यांच्या आणि धामिर्क विधींच्या पलीकडे असतं. त्या वर माझाही विश्वास आहे. पण धार्मिक, सामाजिक, कायद्याची बंधनं हवीत कशाला, म्हणून लग्न नाकारणं मलाही पटत नाही.
written by mimarathi08 71 days ago
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live in relationship is not healthy for our society.We are not suppose to forgot our culture & what is purpose behind marriage. Marriage institution is strongest institution in india & we should trust on that.
written by rane 59 days ago
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live in relationship , hi survat ahe adhigatikade janyachi. jar hya magnine jor pakadlatar kahi varshanantar aaplyat ani janavarat kahich farak rahnar nahi.
written by prashu 59 days ago
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Well, this is much complex than it looks. We need to think these things beyond culture, tradition, customs and values. Decision makers should not take any hasty decision.
A much dicussion should happen in society before coming to any conclusion on this.
SHEVTI HA JYACHA TYACHA PRASHNA JARI ASLA TARI SAMAJALA HYACHE DUSHPARINAM BHOGAYALA LAGU NAYET...........
written by chankya 59 days ago
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We need to be progressive. If two grown up, adults want to live in same house without getting married, whats wrong in that!!
People who keep talking about culture, forget that in name of culture we do more crimes. Like bride burnings, dowries and forced marriages. Women were always treated as second grade creatures in India.
It is time that an individual is given equal importance and not just society.
written by prashu 59 days ago
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true, u r right. It is a very much indiviual's choice with whom I wanna spend my life. But One should not forget the post live-in issues below.
1. Are live-in couples allowed to have babies?
2. If yes, just imagine these ppor childers getting treatement from other conservative society.
3 If such couples are parting away after giving birth to babies then whom that baby belongs to? And who is responsible for bringing them up till they become adult.
Personally I am not criticizing live-in due to cultural issues as current marriage system is also having it's own pros & cons. And people are do suffering just to keep culture & values alive. Indian culture is always open and have accepted all the new concepts. See I guess we have started with Matrusattak and we have came to Pitrusattak.
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खरं आहे, ही कसली नवी नाती बनवतो आहोत आपण? खरचं याची गरज आहे का?
या सगळ्या पार्श्वभूमीवर 'लिव इन रिलेशनशिप'कडे बघायला हवं. कारण यात भरडली जाणार आहे ती बाईच.
प्रेम सगळ्या कायद्यांच्या आणि धामिर्क विधींच्या पलीकडे असतं. त्या वर माझाही विश्वास आहे. पण धार्मिक, सामाजिक, कायद्याची बंधनं हवीत कशाला, म्हणून लग्न नाकारणं मलाही पटत नाही.
live in relationship is not healthy for our society.We are not suppose to forgot our culture & what is purpose behind marriage. Marriage institution is strongest institution in india & we should trust on that.
live in relationship , hi survat ahe adhigatikade janyachi. jar hya magnine jor pakadlatar kahi varshanantar aaplyat ani janavarat kahich farak rahnar nahi.
Well, this is much complex than it looks. We need to think these things beyond culture, tradition, customs and values. Decision makers should not take any hasty decision.
A much dicussion should happen in society before coming to any conclusion on this.
SHEVTI HA JYACHA TYACHA PRASHNA JARI ASLA TARI SAMAJALA HYACHE DUSHPARINAM BHOGAYALA LAGU NAYET...........
We need to be progressive. If two grown up, adults want to live in same house without getting married, whats wrong in that!!
People who keep talking about culture, forget that in name of culture we do more crimes. Like bride burnings, dowries and forced marriages. Women were always treated as second grade creatures in India.
It is time that an individual is given equal importance and not just society.
true, u r right. It is a very much indiviual's choice with whom I wanna spend my life. But One should not forget the post live-in issues below.
1. Are live-in couples allowed to have babies?
2. If yes, just imagine these ppor childers getting treatement from other conservative society.
3 If such couples are parting away after giving birth to babies then whom that baby belongs to? And who is responsible for bringing them up till they become adult.
Personally I am not criticizing live-in due to cultural issues as current marriage system is also having it's own pros & cons. And people are do suffering just to keep culture & values alive. Indian culture is always open and have accepted all the new concepts. See I guess we have started with Matrusattak and we have came to Pitrusattak.
but one need to think about future also.
I hope law-makers will play their part best.